Five years and a lifetime ahead shattered in an instant. He told me to delete his info - he made up his mind. Lots of pent up anger and miscommunication. Too much history to hash out here; fidelity was NOT an issue on either end. So here's my dilemma:
Do I let him know about the pink plus sign I'm staring at???
Depends if you plan on carrying to term or not, I suppose.
Sept. 10, 2017, 6:07 a.m.
Let him know regardless
Sept. 10, 2017, 7:53 a.m.
Or if he does too much drama, then leave it (of you plan to not carry to term)
Sept. 10, 2017, 7:54 a.m.
Sept. 10, 2017, 7:55 a.m.
That was my first thought... to tell him. Actually, had the suspicion and made a doctors appointment. Primary care had me follow up with an OBGYN who confirmed. Major factor in breakup was me tryin to reach him. He works long odd hours. Even though i said "i went to the doctors please call me" he did not
Sept. 10, 2017, 8:55 a.m.
Pissed me way off and I got on his case, caled
Sept. 10, 2017, 8:56 a.m.
... called him (which he ignored/did not pick up). Type of news we would've been happy about but he got beyond irritated and told me its over, (its pretty obvious something else is going on; i don't know his actual "justification").
Sept. 10, 2017, 8:59 a.m.
So given that background information… I don't know how to involve him in any decision making. It would have been welcomed news however after all this I don't want to drop that bomb over text or voicemail... probably only option at this point, yeah?
Sept. 10, 2017, 9:01 a.m.
Sept. 11, 2017, 4:03 p.m.
Tell him over text. And add that what you're planning to do about it.