3 Life Hacks To Help You Deal With Feelings Of Helplessness

Beating helplessness with these 3 lifehacks

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3 Life Hacks To Help You Deal With Feelings Of Helplessness

There is no such thing as helplessness. It’s just another word for giving up.
? Jefferson Smith

Helplessness is one of the worst feelings there is – the feeling of being unable to do anything about your present situation, of being stuck in your circumstances with no way out. In a way, it feels like being stuck in the eye of a hurricane. Even when you feel okay about yourself, you look around and see the dark, dangerous walls of helplessness around you – and you feel totally trapped.

To help you deal with feelings of helplessness, we’ve put together a list of 4 simple life hacks you can use whenever you feel trapped, useless, or stuck in a bad situation.

1. Do Something – Anything

Helplessness, like so many other negative emotions, can be a vicious cycle. A feeling of helplessness leads to inactivity – which leads to increased feelings of helplessness.

You must break this chain. To do so, you just have to do something – anything.

Read a book. Go for a walk. Talk to a friend. Schedule an appointment. It doesn’t matter what you do – it just matters that you’re doing it. Helplessness is about agency and control. If you feel that you have no agency in your life and that you can’t control your circumstances, you’ll feel helpless.

By taking even a small step toward controlling your own circumstances, you can break the negative chain of helplessness – and work towards a healthier mental state.

2. Find An Event To Look Forward To

This is similar to the above step. Helplessness ruins your sense of perspective. You feel as if you have no control over your circumstances, so you focus on what’s happening to you in the present – not what will happen to you in the future.

Finding an event to look forward to such as a wedding, a school event, or a family get-together can help you get past what’s immediate and look towards the future. When you have a positive, fun event to look forward to and to focus on, you can look past your immediate circumstances, which allows you to maintain a healthier mental state.

3. Remember to Love That One Forgotten Person

And if I asked you to name all the things that you love, how long would it take for you to name yourself?
? Anonymous

Most of us forget to love everyone but ourselves. So do remember to appreciate yourself and to avoid being too hard on yourself. You are only human. Do appreciate your efforts and your personality.

This may sound silly, but it works. By focusing on yourself, your good qualities, and your past achievements, you can break past the feelings of helplessness that consume you.

Think about the obstacles you’ve overcome in the past. Think about how you’ve changed in the last couple years. Appreciate the person who you were then – and the person who you have become.

Doing so allows you to trace your own growth – and it proves to you that you can change your circumstances. After all, you’ve done it before, right?

Don’t Let Helplessness Get You Down With These 3 Tips

Next time you feel helpless, or as if you’re not in control of your own life, think of these 3 tips. If you allow yourself to appreciate who you are, where you’ve come from, and the obstacles you’ve overcome in your life, you’ll find that your feelings of helplessness just melt away.

Feel free to interact with other users of the Paralign community anonymously and get their best tips on managing those painful bouts of hopelessness.